growing in life.

Hello Dolls. Glad to be back in the swing of things after taking a necessary blog breather. I had an awesome Summer of love, fun, and enjoying my city. My baby sis found the love of her life and got married, I’ve learned how to deal with some frenemies (which I will be writing a post on!), I’m working out more consistently, and I had some healing heart to heart conversations with Mom and Dad. I feel lighter, stronger, and more focused. There’s nothing like clearing out the emotional air of your own life; its freeing and liberating to know who and what matters. I’ve learned the importance of telling the truth to the people that you love, trusting your gut, making mistakes, forgiving yourself and living the truth of your life without defending it. If you like your hair natural. Cool. If you wear weave tracks ands wigs. Cool and your business. If you date outside of your race: It’s your life. I find that the people who judge the most are not only self-righteous but feel entitled in their control of others. Ladies (and some gents) who follow GT you can’t give people the power and authority to define your life. Don’t let people “should” on you or project their shame on you. Know how to discern when a person isn’t truly happy; they will spread their misery as far as you allow them to.  Boundaries are healthy. They teach people how to treat you. Think of your life as a buffet table: do you give everyone a seat at your life? I hope not.

Posted by gt on September 10, 2012

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